Did you make someone happy today.?

It's been a while, sitting behind a keyboard and typing what my heart says. This blog is 1 year old now. I thank everyone of you for visiting and reading my little scribbles in the cyberspace.  

In this post I would like to address our very own dark places, little snags along the way. We all have our own set of problems. We carry that sac every day upgrading it with a new set of problems. At the same time every one of us think that we are the ones carrying the heaviest load whereas that’s the smallest in the world.

If worries and happiness came in separate packages, what would you choose.?

 You even have the chance to sign up for both packages…

Visiting the vulnerable.. Take your heart with you ; they don’t care what else you bring.!

This vulnerability may come from a terminal disease, a sudden illness or an accident.

Some of these disability situation can be recovered over time. 

They assist psychological help during these recovery process. 

But in the meantime, family members and close friends have a responsibility.

I currently visited a friend of my dad’s and he was suffering from complications of a stroke.

He was a teacher and he is also a karate black belt winner. I think this pretty much explains his physical and psychological capacities.

His family members has been a great support to him though I couldn’t accept the person who lends him books to read.

The person I mentioned above lends him many religious books. I always accept reading any type of book but in this vulnerable position, it’s not the best time to read about the uncertainty of life.

When we don't know where we are going.......

“If you know where you are going, you’re not going to find anything interesting.” – Michael Levitt, Nobel Prize winner in Chemistry,2013.

I came across this quote when I was surfing through a twitter page of nobel laureates & this got me thinking.

Sometimes we are scared to take a leap or to step out from our comfort zone because we are terrified of the outcome, or where it will lead us. According to the quotation above, he was one person among many who didn’t  know where he was going. Apparently he won.

There’s a beauty in this, a wonder to make us strong enough to take the leap. Not knowing where we are going is like painting a sketch. We have an idea about how it will turn out, yet we carefully select our canvas and colours to paint it to be vibrant.

5 Words to a Teen from a 20-some ....

Life is like the ocean.. different phases, various natures... Beautiful and deep..

When turning 20, it made me look back at my own teen life.

I should’ve written this on my last day as a teenager, exactly 2 years ago. 

but I didn’t have a blog by then. Now I do and therefore I’m writing it now.

The most vibrant, beautiful, messy and willful 6 years. 13-19..

The time we will never get back. 

On your last day as a teenager don’t own anything to regret.!

Here are my 5 words to spend your teenage life......

5 Avenues to Redeem your Demons of the Past.!

We all have our own version of demons from the past. 

In our own way we’ve buried them in deep corners of our minds to move on with our lives.

These demons may have appeared in different forms; bad decisions, right decisions which were labeled as stupid by others, toxic people or surroundings.

Time to time these demons tend to peek through those deep corners and haunt our memories. This might happen through a single friendly reminding word with a hashtag by a loved one. The swarming memories are so powerful have the ability to break even a strong mind.

Finding the perfect balance between Ego & Superego.!

In psychology, the self fulfilling prophecy says that the way the society treats us is a reflection of how we treat the society and how we treat ourselves.

We should treat ourselves in the best manner we could because it will eventually fall upon us. The way we see us, the way we think about us and the self worth.

This doesn’t mean a wild superego. But a little worthy ego.

Superego has once described as a devil with no concern about others, while ego the angel tries to balance it.

According to Sigmund Freud the superego is accumulated to the surrounding, it grows according to our experiences and the interactions with the society.

In decision making and expressing ourselves superego can be helpful it gives us the dominant nature.

It’s about finding the perfect balance between superego and ego.

Taking the middle way: Noble eightfold path for the daily life..

Middle way is the path to happiness. The pursuit of happiness begins with moderation. 

We can’t either be overly enthusiastic about what we have or sad about what we haven’t.

It’s all about satisfying with simple things and things we have while doing our best to live the life we expect.

This is the second post of a series of posts which I started a week ago. Click here to read the first post.

Even this eightfold path idea roots from a complex philosophy, we can simplify and adjust it for our daily life. 

3 Reasons Why you need to Unfollow people who give you Negative Energy..!

We come across many people in a daily basis, all of them have their own opinions. We respect everyone and their beliefs, that's what a civilized society expects from us.

 But on social media platforms like facebook; we see these overflowing opinions as posts stuck on our wall. Some posts, they share it for a trend, then it spreads like a wild fire.

These posts we see daily, carry different messages, opinions, views. 

Originally coming from someone else posted by some else to show their acceptance , appreciation or to inspire others.

We scroll down looking at these.

Some posts make us laugh, some make us sad, some make us angry & some even make us feel sorry for people who posted it.

I'm talking about all these negative posts which can affect our state of mind.. 

6 Steps to Become "an Expert".!

In simple terms, an expert is a person who does what he does in a successful manner. 

It means anyone can be an expert. 

The secret lies in the need to complete the work and devotions that a person makes to do it in the right way.

When we carefully evaluate lives of an experts we can see they resemble in a same manner.

What ordinary person lacks is the will, the determination, motivation, the belief and the proper self esteem.

The way a society defines a expert is different bit than this. They define the people who shines in a particular way than anyone else. Society defines an expert as an unique person.

But anyone can become an expert by their heart.

Two Inspiring figures..!

Madame Curie and our beloved J.K Rowling. 

Why write pages and pages about them when google provides you each and every detail. 

I will simply tell you why I like them..... 

"There will be spring again.!"

NaBloPoMo Nov.5 Prompt

"Life is not always sweet,
Matters are the unwelcomed guests,
We share our joy, bottle our pain,
complain the world; say they forsake.

Keep the faith,
take the leap,
today is better.
keep going,
tomorrow will be the best. "

How to Upgrade your Least favourite cousin into the most Favourite

We all have that cousin who give us that evil eye. No matter what we do, we are not good enough for them. Your disliking can be mutual; but let's try and change this.

 I did.I hope you will too. 

That’s because we only live a limited time on this planet earth when compared to the existence of the universe. 
So let’s reduce the number of the enemies and haters. Then you can pose for a selfie with them, without the fear of back stabbing.

But if you really want this to work,first of all your feeling has to be genuine.  Ok from here on I’ll not use the word “evil”, to describe that cousin. That’s the first step. ;)

How to Face your Scholarship Interview. [Quick Tips]

We face Scholarship Interviews with less experience as they come into our lives in early stages. But here are some helpful advices. The advices are from the experts who aced those interviews with less effort but more preparation. 

Your Life.. Your Choice.. [ How to choose your high school/college subjects]

"The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams" - Eleanor Roosevelt

This simply means that you have to grab the steering wheel of your life. How to do that.?

Very few tips for a Very good morning..!!

"Smile... The worst is yet to come..." Mikky Ekko sings. 
There are few tips to wake up every morning as a brand new version of you.. 
Yeah .. yeah everybody say so, you might think.
 But believe me for a second ,these tips will be an absolute success.